Character Survey – Relationships

  1. Do you have any close friends?
    • If so, who and what are they like?
    • What is the history of their relationship(s) with you?
  2. Do you currently have a best friend whom you would protect with your reputation or your life?
    • If so, who are they and what caused you to feel so close to them?
    • What would have to happen for you to end this relationship?
  3. Do you have any bitter enemies?
    • If so, who are they, what are they like, and what is the history of their animosity toward you?
    • Is it mutual?
    • Have you defeated them before?
    • How might these enemies seek to discomfit you in the future?
  4. What valuable or important contacts do you have?
    • How did you come to know them?
  5. Which person(s) or group(s) are you most loyal to?
  6. List any past serious relationships that you have had, and give a brief overview of the relationship(s).
  7. How do you think others generally perceive you?
  8. If someone crossed your path, what would you do?
  9. Who is your most trusted ally?
  10. Who do you trust, in general?
  11. Who do you despise and why?
  12. Name seven things you hate in others.
  13. Is your image consistent?
  14. Do people see you in similar ways?
  15. Do you deliberately present yourself differently in different situations, and how?
  16. What (or who) would you die for?
  17. For whom would you go to extremes?
  18. Who do you turn to when you’re in trouble?
  19. What is the worst thing someone has done to you?
  20. What are your general reactions to a potential romantic interest who lets you know they are available?
    • What if they’re not interesting to you (unrequited interest)?
  21. How do you get along with others in the same field and/or work environment?
  22. What are your secret peccadilloes?
    • Can you be blackmailed, beaten, and tricked?
  23. Have you lost any loves?
    • How did you handle the situation (short & long term)?
  24. Who would miss you, should you go missing?
  25. Who might protect you?
  26. Who might be convinced to sell you out?
  27. How close are you to your friends?
    • What do they know about you?
    • What do they not know about you?
    • What do you know and not know about them?
  28. Do you live with anyone (housemates, roommates, relatives, friends, near-strangers, family friend, spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, lover)?
  29. Are you a member of any special interest groups?
  30. What is your level of involvement?
  31. What is your current status with local law-enforcement?
  32. Do you have a record of cooperation or non-cooperation with authorities?
  33. Do you have a file with local, national or international law enforcement?